You never would know....

Life takes you in it's grip and pulls you in it's current...forcing you to flow accordingly...one not realizing ever!!!...as to how the time has passed by... Now since have become a parent myself am braced already with all the nuances of parenting and with the fact that responsibilities never ends nor they ever will....the running about has started and it's just a warm-up....from post child's birth the relationship with doctor will never end till five years to come..then comes the stage with parents meet in the school....campus/counselling...admissions in colleges for higher studies..but all doesn't end there!!!....hang on!!...then comes the toughest part which is to see your children settled and to play around with their babies clinging on your back...to fulfill that yearn comes the matrimony part and the groom/bride hunting!!!.... Grandparenthood comes very late where you are relaxed in a way that you don't have to bother for daily chores like going to office and all the jazz....in fact it's an important aspect in one's life and the stage which is the most blessed one..it's here only where one has stopped all the running about.....it's the stage where you lay back and relax...But!!!...isn't this a bit too late??...keeping India in mind where a responsibility of a parent never ends....it's here where the West takes the lead...in a way like a bird for an example which allows it's offspring to fly away soon after it learns to spread it's wings and face the wind...but in the east it's just on the contrary.. thus erupts the family issues...interference from both home and in-laws....where in this case the bride never wanting to leave her past at her parent's home and not wanting to move ahead instead..like our culture expects her to be...accommodating...but how will she be??....where...all the freedom is for a daughter and restrictions only for a bride!!!...And that's where a groom's life and the marriage goes for a toss!!!....Just like you knead a dough at home!!!.....where the poor chap gets kneeded by his wife and mom's tussle!!...for not being able to strike a healthy balance between the two!!!!..... ....So it's just not about a relationship of a couple!!!...but relationship in a whole!!....if we want it to prosper...we need to give some Space for it to blossom and reap beautiful results!!...we should always remember the fact that too much close proximity with anyone will only tend to make the situation and the relationship more suffocating..only making things more worse!!!.....like I was watching a programme on Channel V ""Gumrah"" ....the episode was about a nagging and an over protactive mother not being able to strike a right chord with her daughter..later she elopes with a guy whom she thought was her soulmate but was actually a gold digger who sells her off in a brothel...though she escapes...tries to end her life but is rescued in the end where both mother and daughter realising their own mistakes..... So that's where the catch lie....Space and to Strike A Right Balance...

Monday Blues and the Hoopla

Don't they say ""nothing is good or bad...it's only your thinking that makes it so"" Similarly there's nothing as ""Monday Blues""....unless and until we love our work and don't hide under the desk when the going gets tough....no issues..in fact...instead there should always be an excitement to start your day afresh so why should Monday be excluded then?? So my mantra to stay happy and contended is to love what you do and do what you love. I really envy those who make their living through their hobby..like a musician....A poet...An author...A writer....these people are so lucky really..but also few in the percentage....but still v could start loving the work we do and can always carry on with our hobbies side by side........and that's where exactly the catch lie.....Don't make your life so miserable by stop doing the things we thought we couldn't have lived without...A cousin of mine...whom I was chatting with once...not long time back...had said then that in this fast moving and hectic life movies doesn't fit in!!....and it's just not him...the story is same for all the youth in this era so busy in making a life that have fallen prey to all the mental stress and the heart diseases!!!
In fact It's so therapeutic to indulge conscientiously in what we love doing that it actually work as a cure and remedy to all our ailments and the mental stress..also it worka as an excellent stress buster!!!